Hi Scarlett.
I have epilepsy, too. I've had it since I was around six years old, but was only diagnosed when I was seventeen when I had a gran mal.
I've been seizure free for years, but I still get some activity when I don't totally take care of myself.
However, I don't really get upset by epilepsy jokes in general. But I haven't seen these jokes you're talking about, and I certainly don't speak for everyone with it.
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