Lalania,

You compared these children to the animals in kill shelters. Yes there are many adoptable children out there, but we do not kill them, we find them homes etc. and try to do out best..which is what some people are trying to do with pets. When humans get pregnant we have one, two of three at a time...NOT 19!


Yes only children can be happy, I was just stating my opinion.


"Why not pour everything you are into your already existing child, instead of having more? MAYBE then he can grow up to be a scientist or doctor or politician (eeww I hope not hehe)."


Why not love themboth equally? Dylan recieves my attention 24/7. I am with him ALL day as I am a stay at home mom. My second child will recieve the same love and affection. You say maybe then? It doesn't matter if you are the only child, or a child in a family of ten! All children have potential as long as they are raised right and taught. Reading to children everyday, helping with schoolwork etc. makes these kids smarter. As for me, I am the second child in a family of four. I have gone to school and will finish and become a vet, the dream I have had since I was a child. I will be majoring in Veterinary medicine and hold a minor in Genetics. My mother was on welfare and I never recieved help with homework etc. So I guess I should have grown up to be s stupid pot head etc. but no, I had goals in my life and I am making those happen. All my mothers children grew up to be awesome individuals. My younger brother and sister still live at home and are sill in highschool. They both have had invites to certain colleges already because they are so smart with a 3.8 GPA. They WILL do something with their life. My sister wants to be a lawyer and my brother wants to be a pediatrician. And I can guarantee that evenif they change their minds on what they want to be they will be something great!