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    Can't people read?

    The point I raised has nothing to do with a temporary fostering because of surgery. Nothing at all. But, is as typical here, people read the drama, and forget about the most important issue- the pets. There is no reason to rehome any of her pets. Not until the last moment did she chime in that there was a two pet max. She even wrote that she didn't know, and feared to ask. This hasn't been an issue for 12 years. Now all of a sudden it is an issue.

    I would presume it is so because everyone wants that free pass themselves when they dump their own animals. That is sad. That is wrong. And THAT is my concern. People have surgery all the time. How about thinking of the cats and THEIR stress? To live in a cage? Really?

    I don't give a rat's butt what people think of me for expressing my opinion. I am thinking of the cats. Not a single one of you are.

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    Okay, so now we all know there is a two-pet maximum where Pat lives.

    Once the new carpets are in, and since the managers there change so often, perhaps Pat can wait until there is an issue, if there ever is.

    IF - IF - there is, she has a history as a good tenant which she can point out. Plus, she can offer to pay a pet damage deposit for the two extra cats (GoFundMe, here we come!)

    With major surgery coming up, anyone might be more prone to acting out of fear. Having a major event at home - moving furniture, replacing carpets - is enough of an upheaval all by itself.

    At this point, Pat, I truly wish you all the very best with your surgery. With the cats, everything will work out the way it is supposed to. HUGS.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    Okay, so now we all know there is a two-pet maximum where Pat lives.

    Once the new carpets are in, and since the managers there change so often, perhaps Pat can wait until there is an issue, if there ever is.

    IF - IF - there is, she has a history as a good tenant which she can point out. Plus, she can offer to pay a pet damage deposit for the two extra cats (GoFundMe, here we come!)

    With major surgery coming up, anyone might be more prone to acting out of fear. Having a major event at home - moving furniture, replacing carpets - is enough of an upheaval all by itself.

    At this point, Pat, I truly wish you all the very best with your surgery. With the cats, everything will work out the way it is supposed to. HUGS.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    Okay, so now we all know there is a two-pet maximum where Pat lives.

    Once the new carpets are in, and since the managers there change so often, perhaps Pat can wait until there is an issue, if there ever is.

    IF - IF - there is, she has a history as a good tenant which she can point out. Plus, she can offer to pay a pet damage deposit for the two extra cats (GoFundMe, here we come!)

    With major surgery coming up, anyone might be more prone to acting out of fear. Having a major event at home - moving furniture, replacing carpets - is enough of an upheaval all by itself.

    At this point, Pat, I truly wish you all the very best with your surgery. With the cats, everything will work out the way it is supposed to. HUGS.
    Thanks, Candace.

    There's no extra damage deposit possibility for the extra cats, sigh.. Extra cats are not allowed, period. I would pay any amount in a minute if it would make a difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phesina View Post
    Thanks, Candace.

    There's no extra damage deposit possibility for the extra cats, sigh.. Extra cats are not allowed, period. I would pay any amount in a minute if it would make a difference.

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    I just wanted to say good luck with your surgery. I will be keeping you - and your kitties - in my thoughts and prayers.

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    Thank you, Scooter's Mom! I will see if or how I can get word out how it went, after.

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    Good luck Pat with your surgery.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cataholic View Post
    Can't people read?

    The point I raised has nothing to do with a temporary fostering because of surgery. Nothing at all. But, is as typical here, people read the drama, and forget about the most important issue- the pets. There is no reason to rehome any of her pets. Not until the last moment did she chime in that there was a two pet max. She even wrote that she didn't know, and feared to ask. This hasn't been an issue for 12 years. Now all of a sudden it is an issue.

    I would presume it is so because everyone wants that free pass themselves when they dump their own animals. That is sad. That is wrong. And THAT is my concern. People have surgery all the time. How about thinking of the cats and THEIR stress? To live in a cage? Really?

    I don't give a rat's butt what people think of me for expressing my opinion. I am thinking of the cats. Not a single one of you are.

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    Please, folks, let's just leave it where is it in THIS thread, ok?
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    You tell me, Liz:

    Quote Originally Posted by phesina View Post
    Thanks, Candace. Why might they think I have more than allowed? At this point I'm afraid to take the risk. If I lose this place, I'd have a really hard time finding another, particularly one that doesn't have pet limitations.
    AND this:

    Quote Originally Posted by phesina View Post
    And then the problem is needing to find a home for two cats. I'm very afraid they'll think I might have more than I should.
    PLus the fact she had SEVEN in there at one time?

    Which set of "facts" is one to believe? I stick by my opinion. They aren't my cats. But, I can still care about their welfare.

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    I am thinking of phesina AND her cats. I wish I could have the two of them here with me, but that is not an option right now. I also wish I could help phesina more while she is recovering from her surgery, but I am 250 miles away from her in Chicago. I have a 2-pet maximum in my building, too. I know there are people in my building who are over the maximum, but that's none of my business. In the meantime phesina's cats are safe.
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    cassiesmom- I get that. And, I do understand about pet minimums. And, her cats are "safe". But they will be living in a cage. For no reason.

    What gets me is that I fight every single day to keep pets IN homes, I do transport, rescue, donate, educate, etc., to make things better for animals at true risk. At true risk. That was not what was going on here. To know there are people on a pet board that can't see through their own selfish and personal drama, and care more about pleasing others than they do about the welfare of another living being that THEY are responsible for, peeves me to no end.

    I expect to fight this silly nonsense in the general public. I don't expect to fight it on a pet board. But, as I said earlier, I left PT partly because it simply doesn't line up with my own personal mission about responsible pet ownership. That is my mission, my business. Cute pictures of pets are wonderful. Funny antics are wonderful. Pet dumping is not.

    But, until we stop killing healthy animals every.single.day I will fight the fight. Hate me for it all you want. Call me mean, unsympathetic, guilt inducing, making people feel bad- I don't care. I am not doing this for the people. I am doing this for the animals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cataholic View Post
    Hate me for it all you want. Call me mean, unsympathetic, guilt inducing, making people feel bad- I don't care. I am not doing this for the people. I am doing this for the animals.

    Let's you & I just agree to disagree here & leave it at that. Love ya bunches. Liz.
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    Liz- we agree to disagree. It is all good between us.

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