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    Quote Originally Posted by Cataholic View Post
    Pat- I think you are panicking without cause right now. *If* nothing has yet been said about the number of pets you have, and *if* there IS no limit, I wouldn't do a thing until required to do so. I represent landlords. They want "good", paying tenants. Frankly, a place mixed with young college kids AND mature, responsible tenants isn't any landlords dream mix.

    You sound very panicked (not judging you, just relaying how it sounds), and are very reactionary right now. To think of re-homing pets without being told to seems drastic.
    Thank you, Cataholic and Elyse. Yes, I do know I'm panicked here, and I do know I have that tendency.

    But yes there IS a limit, two pets at most, and I am facing major surgery which will have me out of commission for quite a while, with this going on.

    Yes, I've been a good, paying, dependable, non-pesky tenant for the 12 years I've been there. And they are marketing heavily to students right now, especially grad students and foreigners. I think they're looking at the fast-buck aspect, not the long haul.

    Today I took Poppy and Elmer to the Happy Hearts Feline Rescue out in Grass Lake, MI. They can stay there for whatever time they and I need, until I either find a place I can have all four or else decide they should be adopted out. My sister and I have given them quite substantial donations.

    And Bob and Sparkler will probably keep boarding at Karnik until I'm home and able to care for them again myself. My sister told me today she doesn't think she can handle caring for them, what with her job and all her other responsibilities.

    The surgeon's assistant told me today that if I don't want to do Sept. 15, the soonest they could reschedule me is Oct. 29. That would make a lot of my rehab in the winter, which is out as far as I'm concerned. So I either go in next Monday (and come back when?), or else put it off until next March or so.

    Thanks, folks, for your thoughts.

    Pat
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    Sending you good thoughts and prayers! I know what it's like to deal with landlords who have no intention of being nice...*sigh*

    If there is ANYTHING I can do to help out on this adventure, please let me know.

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    Thanks so much for the prayers and good wishes and all, Karen and MoFF and DJFyrewolf36.

    I feel so guilty leaving Poppy and Elmer out there.. they'll mostly be in a cage. And once again their world has gone topsy-turvy.

    I don't know what else to do, though. And I know they will be well cared for and loved and safe out there. I'm lucky that they have that space available to go to.

    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
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    Quote Originally Posted by phesina View Post

    I don't know what else to do, though. And I know they will be well cared for and loved and safe out there. I'm lucky that they have that space available to go to.

    Pat- they could have stayed right there with you. To know that your cats are in a cage is terrible. To know that they are there for no real reason is worse.

    If the cats peeing on everything was the cause of the LL ire, ONE cat is too many.

    The cats should have stayed right where they were until there was a legitimate reason to re-home them.

    And, for all the people that will jump down my throat because I am being "mean"...THIS is one of two reasons that I left PT for all intents and purposes. Pets are not disposable.

    This has seriously bummed me out. Your poor PETS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cataholic View Post
    Pat- they could have stayed right there with you. To know that your cats are in a cage is terrible. To know that they are there for no real reason is worse.

    If the cats peeing on everything was the cause of the LL ire, ONE cat is too many.

    The cats should have stayed right where they were until there was a legitimate reason to re-home them.

    And, for all the people that will jump down my throat because I am being "mean"...THIS is one of two reasons that I left PT for all intents and purposes. Pets are not disposable.

    This has seriously bummed me out. Your poor PETS.
    She has not disposed of them! She is going in for major Sir Jury in a few days, and will be out of commission for an undetermined period of time! And the cats were all boarded while workmen came and replaced all the carpet - not something Pat had scheduled for! She still loves all 4 kitties, I promise! And hopes they can all be back together on the other side of all this upheaval, I know!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cataholic View Post
    Pat- they could have stayed right there with you. To know that your cats are in a cage is terrible. To know that they are there for no real reason is worse.

    If the cats peeing on everything was the cause of the LL ire, ONE cat is too many.

    The cats should have stayed right where they were until there was a legitimate reason to re-home them.

    And, for all the people that will jump down my throat because I am being "mean"...THIS is one of two reasons that I left PT for all intents and purposes. Pets are not disposable.

    This has seriously bummed me out. Your poor PETS.

    I am a bit shocked by this quote.... . Really, this is exactly something that Elaine does NOT need right now....
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