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    What leads you to think that THEY think you have more than 2?

    Maybe bring 2 home and board the other two for a couple of more weeks?

    I still have to contact my friend on FB. I'll do that right now.
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    I have not kept up with all the news, so lets just start with thoughts and prayers for you, Pat.

    I am assuming you rent and are allowed only 2 cats in your lease??

    This "solution" I am about to suggest is not for everyone. But I did this back when I had a cat sick with intestinal cancer and a bad case of runny diarrhea... I covered the carpet with a plastic painting tarp. Using the furniture to hold it in place. And I also did a wall to wall installation of the tarps in 2 rooms. I also use the clear plastic runners with the tiny nubs on the underside, in front of & under litter boxes. Throw carpets or area rugs can also be used to keep the wear down on the carpeting.

    I was lucking in the fact that I did not need to cover the living room carpet, and all the accidents kept happening in the upstairs bedrooms. But I do use the clear runners in the LV and kitchen. But maybe you could find a nice large area rug for your largest room just to keep the most traveled areas cleaner.

    What ever happens, I wish you the best.
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    Now there is a place for the two to go.. a WONDERFUL place! An amazing woman named Jeanne Spencer started and runs Kat Snips (http://www.katsnips.org/), an organization funding low-cost spays and neuters in Washtenaw (this one), Lenawee, and Jackson counties. They also have a couple of rescue shelters and do adoptions. Since they started in 2010, I have donated a lot of items for their fund-raising events such as rummage sales and silent auctions.

    They will take two of my cats, which means the cats will either be adopted to really good, nice people or else will live their lives out there safe and well loved and cared for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenluckenbach View Post
    I have not kept up with all the news, so lets just start with thoughts and prayers for you, Pat.

    I am assuming you rent and are allowed only 2 cats in your lease??

    This "solution" I am about to suggest is not for everyone. But I did this back when I had a cat sick with intestinal cancer and a bad case of runny diarrhea... I covered the carpet with a plastic painting tarp. Using the furniture to hold it in place. And I also did a wall to wall installation of the tarps in 2 rooms. I also use the clear plastic runners with the tiny nubs on the underside, in front of & under litter boxes. Throw carpets or area rugs can also be used to keep the wear down on the carpeting.

    I was lucking in the fact that I did not need to cover the living room carpet, and all the accidents kept happening in the upstairs bedrooms. But I do use the clear runners in the LV and kitchen. But maybe you could find a nice large area rug for your largest room just to keep the most traveled areas cleaner.

    What ever happens, I wish you the best.
    Thanks, Jen... You're right there. Great idea about covering the carpet with plastic painting tarp. I got a couple of big plastic sheets and a few carpet squares to put down. I hope to avoid future little accidental problems.. and anything that does, say, leak out, to catch right away and clean up right away.

    And thanks for the good wishes, too!

    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    What leads you to think that THEY think you have more than 2?

    Maybe bring 2 home and board the other two for a couple of more weeks?

    I still have to contact my friend on FB. I'll do that right now.
    Thanks, Candace. Why might they think I have more than allowed? At this point I'm afraid to take the risk. If I lose this place, I'd have a really hard time finding another, particularly one that doesn't have pet limitations.

    Since I am going for back surgery in less than two weeks, I will have limited ability to control the condition of the apartment. I'll be in the hospital 4 days (assuming all goes as planned), then rehab for however long that takes, days? weeks?, so I won't be around at all during that time. And then when I do come home I'll be limited in motion for quite a while.

    My sister and her partner will be coming over to take care of the cats but can't spend much time.

    The management people can walk in and look around any time they want. City ordinance allows this (I checked it), requiring only that they make a "good faith effort" to notify the tenant, like: knocking on the door (really!). They knock... no answer.. "Oh, darn, no one's home! Well, we tried!"

    The ownership of the apartment complex changed a couple of years ago. Since then they have gone through something like five managers in less than a year. The one who'd been in that position for several years up till then, who did a fine job and was well liked and respected by us all, was fired because he was "too nice." The newest one, who started about two weeks ago, has already made it clear she is a biatch and a bully. She started on me last Saturday when I showed her my doctor's note about my physical limitations that "the onus is on you" to fix this up immediately.

    I'll be interested to learn if your FB friend has any ideas. Thanks, Candace!

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    OK I contacted that lady, Kim. She will check with co-workers.

    Her only concern is that if someone lives a bit outside the city, will the cats be transported? I am sure you would drive them, but not during your surgery recovery!

    This is the woman I contacted you about several months back regarding her job search. Do you still have her email addy?

    Cheers
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    Oh Pat, I'm so sorry to hear about this! As for that new manager, she definitely needs an attitude adjustment. I can't comprehend someone being fired because they're "too nice" to the tenants. My prayers that you and your family can stay together.
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    Quote Originally Posted by momcat View Post
    Oh Pat, I'm so sorry to hear about this! As for that new manager, she definitely needs an attitude adjustment. I can't comprehend someone being fired because they're "too nice" to the tenants. My prayers that you and your family can stay together.
    Thank you so much, Eileen. Yeah, that new manager is another prize on their part. Hope she doesn't last long either. I think they want to be hard-a$$ and get rid of long-term tenants so they can cash in big on students.. especially since the University admitted more freshmen than they have dorm space available for (OOPS! We goofed! ) !!!

    And thank you for the prayers, from the cats and me. The only way we could stay together is if I found another place where I could have that many and not be under threat of eviction.

    I'm going to see if I can get the surgery rescheduled for a week or two later.. (longer than that and my recuperation will likely go into the winter, and I can't risk that, especially if the winter is as bad as it was last year). The surgeon's assistant doesn't work Fridays, so I left her a message. I don't want to attempt to deal with the general line and whoever might answer that or if I have to leave a message there.

    Today the old carpet is being removed from the living room and the floor painted with sealer gunk (protect from cat pee, right?). I will be crashing on my sister's couch tonight. Possibly tomorrow but probably Monday the new carpet will be put in. And then the movers come back to move the stuff back from the bedroom to the living room on Tuesday (hopefully fixing the table legs that broke off when they lifted the table to move it yesterday). And then I have to try and find everything and where it was packed and begin to try and put the place back to some reasonable order.

    And then the cats can come home Wednesday. Assuming it's not too crazy still. And looks like just Bob and Sparkler, so they'd not only have to get used to completely new smells in the place and finding their way around whatever disorder still exists, which will be quite a bit. AND get used to their other two roomies being gone. Not that they were all that close with them, but still they're used to them being around in familiar surroundings.

    And then they have to get used to ME not being around from the following Monday through I don't know how long but I'm betting nearly a month if not more.

    That is the most important reason I want to postpone the surgery.

    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    OK I contacted that lady, Kim. She will check with co-workers.

    Her only concern is that if someone lives a bit outside the city, will the cats be transported? I am sure you would drive them, but not during your surgery recovery!

    This is the woman I contacted you about several months back regarding her job search. Do you still have her email addy?

    Cheers
    Candace
    Thanks, Candace. I remember her.. We exchanged a few e-mails, and at one point we were going to get together at Denny's. Then she had to bow out at the last minute, and I never heard back after I asked her to let me know some other time(s) that might work for her. As I told her then, and I'll say it again, it's always nice to meet another Ann Arbor cat lady!

    I would transport them, if it's before the surgery of course! Did you tell her that one of the cats, Elmer, is a CH boy and would need to be in a controlled environment.. all on one floor, as he can't do stairs.. well, he'd probably try them but he'd easily fall down them. Same with any place or thing he could fall from. And he could NOT go out unless supervised or in something like a catio (outdoor enclosed space for cats).

    I think they will probably be going to Jeanne's group. They are all good people. In fact, my sister's kitty Alan M. Hill was adopted from them.. so they are in effect part of the family already!

    Pat
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

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    I'm so sorry this is happening. I would offer to foster them if there was any feasible way to get them to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by snakemama View Post
    I'm so sorry this is happening. I would offer to foster them if there was any feasible way to get them to me.
    Oh, thank you so much! Now I'm wondering.. could I somehow get them to L.A. ...
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

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    Or even Vancouver, Canada, since Slick offered to take them...I think your city is midway between the two in terms of distance.
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    I wish we could sneak them across the border, but we are too full at the Hotel now.That is so sad that Elmer and Pooppy will have to move, but I am sure that things will work themselves out and we are all praying for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by catmandu View Post
    I wish we could sneak them across the border, but we are too full at the Hotel now.That is so sad that Elmer and Pooppy will have to move, but I am sure that things will work themselves out and we are all praying for you.
    Thank you for good wishes and prayers, Gary and kitties.
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

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    It'll work out somehow, Pat. I actually don't think the railways would work well.

    I do wonder if we have PTrs in south Ontario that might take them?

    Something will work out!
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