Blanca, your story reminds me of the best cat I ever had. I had a beautiful Siamese kitten and I was sure he was a male kitten. I named him Cyrus, after Billy Ray! Much to my surprise... HE was not a HE at all. I considered changing 'her' name, but there can be Billy May Cyruses as well as Billy Ray Cyruses, right?? Cyrus was the most loving affectionate cat I have ever had and she was with me for the most glorious 20 years before she had to pass over the Rainbow Bridge. I surely hope you and Blanca have as many wonderful years together!!! Red 46