Cali, my Sweet, you sound like a lady with personality. You know what you want and you go for it! I live with a lady with a complex personality, my girlcat Dinah Lee. She has many irons in the fire and is very busy throughout her day. At least once a day, however, she has some time to snuggle with me and BOY, can she SNUGGLE! She goes about that like she does all of her other activities--with energy and determination. She practically has made an Olympic event out of it. Then she whizzes out of the room to scare up one of her brothers and chase him around the house. One of them is usually agreeable to a little chase, after which she goes on to something else. What a gal! Congratulations on being COTD, Cali!