Thank you Freedom and Karen for your answers!
The problem is, Kalou doesn't belong to my friend, she belongs to my friend's neighbours. The only reason I went to dog-sit for them was that my friend's family was going to a wedding with them, so my friend suggested I take care of their house.
Even then, in their eyes I was looking after their expensive house rather than the dog. The father even told me before he left "You don't have to do anything with the dog if you don't want to, she's fine outside. Just feed her and put her in her cage in the evening."
I just really don't understand why they got a dog in the first place. My friend told me they got her to replace their old dog, but even their old dog spent most of his life in the house. The family have no interest in training her, because they don't want a dog they can take places, they don't care if their dog can't behave in public, they're not interested in dog sports or any dog related activities because in their mind, a dog's purpose is to keep you company at home. In their mind, if Kalou can't live in the house it's her own fault, "because she KNOWS she should be calm, she's just being difficult." They treat Kalou like a piece of furniture.
I don't understand, they say that a dog is to "keep you company", but how is Kalou doing that when she's banished to the garden and given no human contact? In my opinion, it's a miracle she's as sociable as she is, I know a lot of dogs who would have developed so many behavioural if treated the same way...
As for the Beagle, I don't even know the family, their younger daughter is a friend of my sister, and I tried talking to her about it but my sister just told me that it's none of my business and that "it's their dog, not yours, so they have every right to treat it however they want. Not everyone spoils their dog like you do."
I don't see how giving daily walks, training sessions and doing agility is spoiling a dog. I see it as strengthening the bond between dog and handler.
With the Beagle, I do make sure I take care of her when I meet her on my walks and I've been doing a bit of boundary training with her to teach her not to go near the main road. My neighbours all think I'm crazy
Dogs are considered property by most of the people I know and so people think they are perfectly entitled no not bother with anything and it annoys me so much. I once tried to explain positive reinforcement and clicker training to another dog owner who lives near me and he just said "Look, you're making everything complicated. Dogs are pack animals, we are the alpha and so they must be made to submit. That's all there is to it. Anything else is being soft and spoiling the dog." This is a man who barks out commands at his dog like a drill sergeant.
Am I over-reacting to all this? Is it over the top to simply want people to give their dogs the lives they deserve? :/






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