I understand totally what you are going through right now. Joseph ended up in the emergency vet on September 8th with crystals. I am still working with the vet to clear things up. Right now he didn't get the PU surgery, but I might have to consider it in the future.

My problem is that he doesn't like the SO food. I make a homemade diet and he will only eat a little bit of the SO food.

I can't catch him to give him any of his meds or even get him into the carrier...