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    I'm not necessarily in favor of banning them, but I'd love to see lots and lots of restrictions. Keep it age appropriate regarding clothing, accessories, makeup and hairdos. Ban the tanning and the removable dental work that make it look like they have a set of perfect teeth. Ban the sexually suggestive posing. Let that 5 year old look like a 5 year old, and not a mini street walker - and that was the most polite way I could say it, tho other words would be far more accurate! Who will they imitate or emulate next - Miley Cyrus???

    Sure - little girls like to play dressup - I know I did when I was a kid - and my other little friends and I did it rather often. But I can say with a very big amount of certainty, that the little girls in these pageants are not doing it because they want to, and it's their mothers (and fathers to a lesser degree), that are pushing them into it. These mothers are nothing more than failed wannabe beauty queens, and they are living what they failed to accomplish, thru their daughters. If they would only get it thru their vain and selfish skulls and see what potential danger they are putting their daughters in. Every pedophile out there can view these girls without anyone ever knowing,, and we all know where that can lead. Look at JonBenet Ramsey. Even tho her killer has never been found and of course I can only speculate, but I believe it was some sicko who saw her in a pageant, or photos of her, or even just playing in her own yard. I can't believe that any mother would put her daughter in potential harm's way, for the sake of a trophy, and place herself in financial straights and a less than a desirable relationship with her husband - all for the glory that isn't even hers.
    And don't even get me started on the marvelous show that airs here in The States - Toddlers & Tiarras. I could just barf...........
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    Thank you, Ellie, you said pretty much everything I wanted to say. Those pageants aren't about little girls playing dress-up, they're about adults dressing and making up children to look like tarts.
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    It would help if they would stop putting the contests on tv too. I don't usually watch them but once in a while while channel flipping I've popped in on one. One lady was bragging how much her child LOVED doing the pagents while the child was crying and screaming she didn't want to do it. Lots of partents hop their kids up on Pixie stix which is nothing but flavored sugar or give them sugared water to keep their energy up. That is just plain wrong in my opinion. What next, give them a shot of vodka to calm them down????
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    Why ban something every time someone doesn't like it?

    Can you say "overly intrusive government"?

    I knew you could.

    Don't like the contests? Don't attend them, don't watch them on TV.

    No audience, no money, they go bye bye.

    People need to stop looking to the government to solve niggling problems. It distracts from the real issues.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady's Human View Post
    Why ban something every time someone doesn't like it?

    Can you say "overly intrusive government"?

    I knew you could.

    Don't like the contests? Don't attend them, don't watch them on TV.

    No audience, no money, they go bye bye.

    People need to stop looking to the government to solve niggling problems. It distracts from the real issues.
    This pretty much sums it up for me. Why do they need to be banned? Why does someone else have to come in and "save us from ourselves"? Will this solve the problem of parents living vicariously through their kids and kids dressing like mini adults? NO... banning this would be a bandaid and nothing more. There was a family at McDonalds one day and the little girl couldn't have been more than 7 or 8 and she was wearing high heels, a mini skirt and a belly top. Treating the symptoms doesn't cure the disease.

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    Well, how about banning the contests from being televised? That would remove some motivation for the moms. And sparks - perhaps televising these pageants makes it seem ok for young girls to wear heels and minis in public, like the one you saw?

    It's not a fun thing for kids, it's a meat market. I wish they could just be kids instead of commodities.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    Well, how about banning the contests from being televised? That would remove some motivation for the moms. And sparks - perhaps televising these pageants makes it seem ok for young girls to wear heels and minis in public, like the one you saw?

    It's not a fun thing for kids, it's a meat market. I wish they could just be kids instead of commodities.
    I honesty don't believe that these pageants are what is teachig kids to dress like that. I would say advertising and celebrities are the more likely reasons. Do they televise kids pageants? I mean other than the "reality" shows on TLC. Or do you mean like miss America pageant and such? Anyway, no I do not believe that the pageants are the reason for the trends

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    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    Well, how about banning the contests from being televised? (
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady's Human View Post
    Why ban something every time someone doesn't like it?

    Can you say "overly intrusive government"?

    I knew you could.

    Don't like the contests? Don't attend them, don't watch them on TV.

    No audience, no money, they go bye bye.

    People need to stop looking to the government to solve niggling problems. It distracts from the real issues.

    Who decides what the "real issues" are? If enough people speak out for or against something does it then become an "issue" in need of guide lines?
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    Quote Originally Posted by lizbud View Post
    Who decides what the "real issues" are? If enough people speak out for or against something does it then become an "issue" in need of guide lines?
    "Real" issues?

    In the United States, the Constitution makes the scope of Federal powers fairly clear. War, the economy, little things like that.

    The federal government should have bigger fish to fry than deciding if kids should wear dresses on a runway. Maybe figure out the deficit for a start like they're Constitutionally obligated to, rather than constantly wasting time on minor issues?
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