Donna, please ignore what your sister-in-law says. Even though she is having difficulties in her life she has NO right to say anything to anyone else about how they lead their life. People are correct, pay her off ASAP and then make sure to keep future informaiton on a need to know basis only.

You are too valuable a person to feel less than important.

Like Johanna I move regularily across the continent and between countries. I know how difficult it can be to re-establish a network of friends. But please remember that "strangers are just friends you haven't met yet".

Cheryl