Slick, I think he is telling you something. My Mandy girl (my first Aby) had the same problem but I found it late in the game. I had to feed her water with an eye dropper and she was unable to eat. After the biopsy report she departed with the help of the vet, within two days. My heart broke. I loved her so. I know how much you love all your cats. It is difficult to watch them try and much better to end their mystery and confusion. May you have extra special strength to get through this.