poor Nebo. I think that's excactly what he's doing..MY BED - STAY OFF My boy's do the same thing sometimes and that's just "the way things are" (to quote the mice in the movie Babe) You can't get too upset over it..they are ever so worth the frustration they can be, just like any child. Nebo is sooooo beautiful and gives you soooo much joy, just be patient - he will come to accept the fact that he just has to deal with "the other ones". Maybe that's not much help but I'm feeling quite accepting of life's reality's right now and that's all I can offer. Besides, it's 3:30 in the morning and I'm a bit tired.