It sucks, doesn't it, being indebted to this person so you have to listen to her "advice" and scolding. First of all, it's not a definite thing that Eli will need expensive medical treatment down the road. I've had 2 cats now that have never needed anything beyond the annual physical and shots, so who is she to decide whether you can "afford" your cats? Secondly, I am sick of defending my interest in my computer / Internet as well. It's no worse than people who watch TV all night (like those stupid reality shows), people who have a hobby that consumes all their waking moments, etc. There are websites that discuss Internet addiction, and so far I am exhibiting NONE of the symptoms and I'm sure you aren't either. Just because you haven't seen some of us in the flesh doesn't make us any less your friends, and in fact, we're a pretty low-maintenance bunch here - just pop on once in a while and type to us! You don't even have to get dressed! You have a life, you have a job, you see people all day long, so you're not some weird hermit. You had friends in Connecticut, so obviously you know how to make and keep friends. Just ignore her, and hopefully when your debt to her is paid you can spend less time in her company.