Some good news! and maybe advice?

[caseysmom]

Also my daughter is 20 and never really had a boyfriend she is too focused on school and a boy is the furthest thing from her mind and I have no doubt she will meet the perfect guy someday, she will be older and wiser and know what she wants. My other daughter has been with the same guy since 8th grade and I don't like him at all, although I treat him fine since she chooses him.

[Taz_Zoee]

Congrats on the possible job!!
I also agree 100% with what Ellie posted. She said EXACTLY what I was going to say. Also, my niece just turned 22 last week and she has only kinda had one boyfriend, for about a month. She is in no rush to "find someone" and is just being happy in her life with herself. She recently moved out on her own and she is at a great place in life. But her life goals are to get married and have a family.............eventually. I just hope she doesn't take after her aunt. I'm almost 40 and never been married, no children. BUT I have been with the most wonderful man for almost 10 years and couldn't imagine my life without him. I am happy and that's all that matters.
Find happiness within yourself first (and I'm not saying you aren't already). A relationship does not have to be your only happiness.
I think you are a very smart girl, Alyssa. And I know you are beautiful. So just relax and enjoy life.