Pat, to put what is best for Diane ahead of your feelings and everything else is the most difficult and painful act of love, yet shows the enormous love you have for Diane. I can't see that comforting you much right now, but we are here with you and for you.

I hope you and Diane's mother and sister can find some support in each other, from the priest, and other people at the hospital.

Sending hugs that like Karen, I wish I could give in person.