Any help or tips for a timid adult cat?

[Freedom]

Oh poor kitty! Cats take time to adjust to change, and she may well need more than 2 weeks.

I encourage you to pet her, give her the belly rubs. I would not make it too easy for her to continue living under the bed, what I mean is, don't put the food and water and treats there, let her have to roam about a bit for them.

In the wild, cats do not drink much at all, they get all the fluids they need from their prey. For this reason, feeding her just kibble isn't the best diet for her. Add a high quality canned food. like Tiki Cat, Fussie Cat, or Weruva brands. For my cats, I mix the canned with a bit of the kibble so they get some crunch as well.

Do you have a scratching post or a cat tree / cat perch? Buy some catnip and crumble it up on the cat items, this will help attract her to those things.

I am glad you put the blankie down for her. And the boxes, ha haa, never met the cat yet who could decline a box! Even that may take her a day or 2 to venture into them. I hope you keep her, sure sounds like she needs a nice safe place. Oh, and I am opposed to allowing cats outdoors, so I wouldn't recommend that.

Where do you live? You didn't say, don't know if you are in the States, Canada, England, etc. I am in Rhode Island, USA.

[cassiesmom]

Scratching at the windows and doors makes me wonder if she was allowed to go outside in her previous home(s). When she does that, can you dissuade her from the window or door with a treat or a toy? I am thinking this would be a good chance to make her an indoor-only kitty.

Cassie stayed under my love seat for a few days after I first brought her home. She allowed me to reach under the love seat to pet her. I know she was coming out at night to eat and use the litter pan because the food I put out for her was gone and the pan was used. I hope your kitty gets braver! What is her name? Come on out, kitty

[Nerrivik]

She slept almost all night today on an armchair in the living room and started coming out from under the bed during the day when I pet her. When she goes out she just keeps walking in circles as I pet her but doesn't dare going any further.

I stopped giving her canned food under the bed hoping that she will get out once hungry but she won't until I pet her for a very long time. It's like she needs some type of approval. Also every little noise sends her right back into her hiding spot. I don't know any of these brands, I will look if I can find any of these online or in local pet stores. I give her pouches of Royal Canin and CatNatura cans at the moment.

I do have a scratching post but as far as I can tell she has not used it yet, I can hear her clawing the doormat at night though. I tried catnip,she didn't really care about it at first but today I have seen her munching on the cat nip toy so maybe I can make more of them and leave them around the house. She has not used any of the carton boxes I have made for her as of yet.

I am not going to let her go outside. I could in theory but I do not have a garden so she would just venture straight on to a busy street. It's not easy to find a shelter cat that is indoor. Most usually require a garden or at least a secure, closed off balcony. I don't need to do anything when she is meowing and scratching the door because she usually runs away as I approach her. Tonight was the first night she didn't do it so maybe she gave up on it.

As for kibble ,I'm not sure if I should continue giving it to her. The shelter gave me a bag of Prins Vitalcare and recommended to feed her with that and eventually mix it with a different brand in the beginning as that is what she was used to at the shelter. I did, she threw up last night and there was no hair at all ,just kibble. I'm not sure if it was stress that caused her to vomit it up or the food itself is just not very good for her.

As for the two weeks policy. I have worked at another shelter before ,it's not the worst thing. Cats never stay in very long before getting adopted. And it just doesn't always work out between the cat and the new owner. They always end up finding a good new home eventually and are rarely being brought back. I can prolong the trial period if progress is being made. I am not sure what I am going to do yet. We still have a bit of time.

Oh and I'm living in The Netherlands. Kitty has no name yet, it usually takes me a while to see what suits them. (My last cat was nameless for more than a month until we decided to name him Pascal.) They made a mistake at first and thinking she was a male cat; gave her the name Brian. They didn't change it any more ,it's not like she is reacting to it either way.

Thanks for all your replies ,I hope she will continue on making progress.

[Karen]

It all sounds like very good progress, and like she is really settling in, so keep up he good work!