I am feeling so much better with all of your responses. I can definitely see myself calling my vet for everything like Laura did I'm sure he wishes he had never given me his private number It's a good thing his wife loves me!! Pictures of mom will be posted later today. I am at work right now and am usually scolded for talking of forums

Thanks again everyone! You all have been incredibly helpful. I'm so glad a friend of mine directed me to you all.