Quote Originally Posted by catlady1945 View Post
I agree. I know your heart is in the right place, but I think maybe a 'surprise party' for a 90-year old is not a great idea, in any case. If she doesn't want one, she doesn't want one. Have the "reunion" get-together, instead & maybe a couple of family members could take her for dinner.

(BTW - a lot of women don't like surprises - we need to dress up & get our hair done!)
After several re-reads, I realize you are agreeing with me. Then you are speaking to elizabethann but it sounded like me.



Why am I wrong? I didn't say anything about a surprise party. The owner of the thread did. Please quote and reference the correct person.

I did suggest a re-union for the whole family. I don't think she would object to the whole family getting together, but I don't know her. And sometimes people say they don't want a party just to see if you would do it.