Wow.

Did you see the suggestions for giving cats medicine in the Cat Health area today? I'd forgotten about the stuff-the-cat-in-a-sleeve method until someone recommended it. Would this help you give her medicine?

Someone here talked about getting a councellor for their cat when they were having behavior problems. Unfortunately I don't remember details -- even if they were satisfied with the results. T-Touch Therapy, perhaps??? It was quite a while ago. Maybe these ramblings will remind someone of who/ what and they can give you more help.

Good luck!