Yes Maggie - I can understand what you're saying about Coop, but after 10 years, perhaps he should reconsider those family ties and think of protecting his (and your) backside! If the handling and reporting of related issues to this beach house ever were to be audited, I have no doubt that all owners would be held accountable, and you all could indeed be in deep doo-doo!!! You and Coop have a beautiful home - is it worth even the "possibility" that you could lose it? I know it's easy for me to say this since it's not my family or my issue, but there must be something that can be done. If Coop loses his sister because of it, it will not be on his shoulders. She is the one that created the problem to start with, and continues to perpetuate it, and appears to have no regard for anyone but herself. I'd say it's time to move on. Of course - this is JMHO.
Hugs to you and Coop.........
(you don't mind my Coop hug, do you??)
ETA: Just a thought - but perhaps she doesn't want to sell the house outright, or at least buy you out, because there are less than above-board and even perhaps illegal actions related to the management, and they would surely surface during any kind of sale. Just an idea that popped into my empty head, and maybe I'm off base, but you never know.
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