Difficult situation

**DriftyAlison0** · 07-02-2012, 10:23 PM

So any updates?

**Herbstie** · 07-03-2012, 08:42 AM

Update: Fin is still with us, I haven't had any contact with my friend, I think she knows now that he needs to stay with us (she has already quit her job to work as a bartender, so her flakiness hasn't really changed). The last time I heard from her was early February, at the time I didn't return her call, my dear sweet kitty Meekert had passed on days before from complications from kidney failure so I was not about to discuss her wanting to take another baby from me. I think she knows it was for the best, she loves going out and having a very active social life, so Fin would have been alone all the time. Thank you all again for the advice and support, I'm so happy it all worked out for us, he's definitely a very special member of the family!

**sasvermont** · 07-03-2012, 10:06 AM

I am glad you still have the kitty. I am sorry your lost one in the meantime. I hope your one time friend forgets your phone number.

Thanks for keeping us updated.

Your lesson was a lesson for us all, I'm afraid. There are tons of nice people out there but every now and then you run into someone who just doesn't get it (life).

**Karen** · 07-03-2012, 10:40 AM

Originally Posted by Herbstie

Update: Fin is still with us, I haven't had any contact with my friend, I think she knows now that he needs to stay with us (she has already quit her job to work as a bartender, so her flakiness hasn't really changed). The last time I heard from her was early February, at the time I didn't return her call, my dear sweet kitty Meekert had passed on days before from complications from kidney failure so I was not about to discuss her wanting to take another baby from me. I think she knows it was for the best, she loves going out and having a very active social life, so Fin would have been alone all the time. Thank you all again for the advice and support, I'm so happy it all worked out for us, he's definitely a very special member of the family!

We are so glad! He deserve love and stability!