I just stand or sit still and let the dog make the first move. And ask permission first always. Most of the time I just talk to the owner since I don't know what type of training they have implemented and I don't want to mess it up.

Shouldn't treat cats that way either. Might get slapped or clawed before the cat runs. Or have the cat chomp on your hand. RB Rose bit me hard in the hand once and for no reason. She was chronically grumpy. When I approach Sam, I have to extend my hand and get his approval first. The same with Ash, the store cat.

While I was visiting my friend's pet supply store nearby, a lady and her children came in looking around. noisy lot. The mom came over to Ash, the store cat, and stuck her face in the cat's face and aid all that silly screechy, cute kitty stuff, before I could grab Ash. Ash restrained herself rather well. She's been known to slap. One of her children tried to follow suit and Ash was in my arms seeking refuge. I found her a high refuge after some reassuring loving.

People need to engage the brain cells and learn to respect all others.