I fully expected them to say no, they've never supported me or any of my siblings so why would they start now. I just wanted them to give me a valid reason, make them really think about it. It would have been nice had they signed up for me. They never would have been stuck with the payments, I have loads of insurance and the mortgage itself is also insured. I could have easily walked into the next phase of my life had they helped out. I am tired of living apart from the majority of my stuff - its in storage as my rented condo is really too small to hold much of anything. I so want to give Cali and Diego room to run and play before they're too old to care. Yet again they are making my life harder than it needs to be and she did it in typical fashion for her, take a big dig at me. I will persevere and I will do it on my own, without their help. My mom and I have never had a good relationship, I was not her favorite, that she made known very early on, but I became the only with the deaths of 2 kids and the departure to northern regions of the youngest. I thought we had moved on to a new phase of relations with the support I've provided her the past while with the dad issues. Guess I was incredibly wrong.

Thank you all for your support, I appreciate the kindness.