I just saw your photos. Yes, I can definitely see a difference. Probably the reason your mother didnt notice is because she sees you often. Is that right? Many many years ago I lost 60 lbs (I was huge) before anybody at work noticed. (One time I lost 140 lbs & I've lost 50-70 several times) I did not mention that I was trying to lose weight because I knew all the skinny gals would be telling me how to do it so I just kept quiet. Then one day someone noticed. You keep it up Girl and dont worry who notices or who doesnt. One day they will all see the difference. Even if they dont, just do it for YOURSELF.