A tough decision...

[lolli94]

Definitely accept it. Does your friend have special pets? You could surprise her with photos of them. I plan to do that for my boss who doesn't take pictures and has only one pic of a cat she recently lost. I plan to make sure that doesn't happen with her current cat, Stewie. And please don't think you don't deserve it. Friends delight in giving gifts to friends.

[robinh]

I have to say I definitely agree with what everyone has said.

Not sure I'm wording this right, but your friend is offering this gift out of love for you. I know it's hard to accept such thing, but I wonder if your friend is not a "sister from another mother". I have several girlfriends that we refer to one another as sisters and I know they would not hesitate to do the same. Her offering also says something about you...you are worthy of a friend who would offer this kind of gift to feed your soul.

[Scooter's Mom]

Kirsten, I completely agree with everyone else. You are so deserving of this and so much more. Please accept the gift your friend is giving to you, and return the gift to everyone else with the beautiful photos that you share.

[caseysmom]

Kirsten, you also may hurt your friends feelings if you don't accept this gift, she obviosly wants to do this.

[Randi]

I can understand how you feel, but you know her best. I think you should accept it. Perhaps you can do something to help her at another time. Or take some fantastic photos of her and her family. I'm sure she'd love that.

[sasvermont]

My vote: Accept the camera as a gift from a dear friend. Money is just that....money. I, too, would share an inheritance with friends in need. Your camera seems to be your one form of happiness and entertainment. Your friend seems to be as kind as any one person could be. Enjoy her friendship and accept the gift. Not everyone is lucky enough to have such a friend.

And of course, let us see your new photos with your new camera!

You are worthy! <------repeat after me.......

[momcat]

Hi Kirsten,
I have to agree with everyone here. Accept the camera, this offer is coming from your friend's heart because she cares about you. Your PT friends look forward to all the pictures you so graciously share with us, your visit to the zoo, the countryside, and I remember the pictures of your town - looking at them was like actuall being there with you.
And you DO deserve this and every other good thing that comes your way. You have always come through as a kind and caring person, there's no question that if things were reversed you'd be doing the same for her!
I hope you'll let us know what you decide to do.