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  1. #1
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    I counted 16 favs on your last week of photos on the 365 project (at least two of which are mine ) For a year that is 832 favs, 832 people who enjoyed a picture of yours so much that they faved it, not to mention the numbers of people who viewed and didn't fav. That's 832 people who were blessed by something you did -- and that includes ME!!

    So I agree with everyone! Accept, accept and use your talent -- I agree with Moosmom: "If anyone deserves it, it's you!" And with Pomtzu, I would hate to see an end to your photography because your camera has reached the end of its life.
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    Its called a gift for a reason. Don't deny her that happiness. She wouldn't have offered if she didn't want to do it. And she knows how much joy you get from photography. You're worth every bit of that new camera and more. I know you've been having life really tough and I think this would be a big boost for you.

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    Learn to be a gracious receiver. Perhaps in the future you can send her a special photo as a gift!

    Is there a per rescue near you? Perhaps you could offer to do pet photos as a fund-raiser at one of their events! In today's society, it is easy to think that only money matters - but giving of our talents is worth so much more!

    As Tolstoy said, "The world will be saved by beauty."
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    I have to agree with everyone else Kirsten. If your friend didn't think you were worthy of such a gift she would have never offered. Time to put those harsh feelings about yourself aside and accept her gift graciously. Just think of the happiness your friend will feel knowing she was able to offer such a gift. Giving is as rewarding as receiving. You could always take some great shot of something you know she'll love to show your appreciation - although I'm sure she has many of your famous photos as it is.
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    Kirsten, I also agree with accepting this gift from your friend. You are most certainly deserving if your friend is offering this to you. You are a great photographer, and being a fellow photographer myself, I love your work! Maybe you could do a special photograph to give to her?

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    Definitely accept it. Does your friend have special pets? You could surprise her with photos of them. I plan to do that for my boss who doesn't take pictures and has only one pic of a cat she recently lost. I plan to make sure that doesn't happen with her current cat, Stewie. And please don't think you don't deserve it. Friends delight in giving gifts to friends.
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    I have to say I definitely agree with what everyone has said.

    Not sure I'm wording this right, but your friend is offering this gift out of love for you. I know it's hard to accept such thing, but I wonder if your friend is not a "sister from another mother". I have several girlfriends that we refer to one another as sisters and I know they would not hesitate to do the same. Her offering also says something about you...you are worthy of a friend who would offer this kind of gift to feed your soul.

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