My beloved, beautiful Tommy

**ramanth** · 01-08-2012, 05:31 PM

Still thinking of you Jess.

You're missed Tommy!

**Lori Jordan** · 01-08-2012, 10:13 PM

I'm Deeply sorry of your loss of your boy Tommy,Words cannot express how sorry i am.It's never easy loosing our beloved pets,You now have a Beautiful Guardian Angel walking every step with you,He's not far,He will never leave you.

Hugs to you!

**K9soul** · 01-09-2012, 11:22 AM

I don't know how to get through this. I went to my mom's yesterday and stayed overnight. It helped distract me for awhile. But when I woke up I just felt a sense of panic that I have to face this again. I have no appetite until late in the day but then when I eat I just feel nauseated. The only time I feel any peace is when I finally feel tired enough to just curl up with the girls and go to sleep.

When I came home, I called his name. I knew he wouldn't come, but I called for him anyway. Maybe I'm losing it.

**chocolatepuppy** · 01-10-2012, 09:55 PM

Oh Jess, it's so hard.

You're not losing it but I'm sure you feel like you are. It will take time, a long time, to feel better about Tommy.
He will always be in your heart. {{{hugs}}}

**cloverfdx** · 01-11-2012, 04:57 AM

Jess i know the feeling all too well

. My heart breaks for you.

**ChrisH** · 01-11-2012, 07:22 AM

Originally Posted by K9soul

When I came home, I called his name. I knew he wouldn't come, but I called for him anyway. Maybe I'm losing it.

Jess, I still talk to my Bobby even though I know he's not there. I don't know for sure that it's normal but I don't think it's that an abnormal thing to do after losing a loved one. Heck, I would often talk to my hubby after he died too and I think I stayed relatively sane.

It is so hard I know. I don't know if this makes a lot of sense but maybe it would help a little if you could think of what Tommy would like you do. He was a happy very much loved dog because of you, wouldn't he want you going forward living your life with the legacy of some of the joie de vive he had lodged in your heart, to ease the sorrow a little day by day.

Love and {{hugs.}}

**Randi** · 01-11-2012, 11:21 AM

Originally Posted by ChrisH

It is so hard I know. I don't know if this makes a lot of sense but maybe it would help a little if you could think of what Tommy would like you to do.

Jess, this is what I thought when I lost John, and it does make sense! Take your time to grieve and do/say things others may consider crazy - cry all you want, it helps in the long run - and you're allowed to! We're here for you.

Sending big hugs and lots of love.

**captain** · 01-11-2012, 08:01 PM

Originally Posted by ChrisH

Jess, I still talk to my Bobby even though I know he's not there. I don't know for sure that it's normal but I don't think it's that an abnormal thing to do after losing a loved one. Heck, I would often talk to my hubby after he died too and I think I stayed relatively sane.

It is so hard I know. I don't know if this makes a lot of sense but maybe it would help a little if you could think of what Tommy would like you do. He was a happy very much loved dog because of you, wouldn't he want you going forward living your life with the legacy of some of the joie de vive he had lodged in your heart, to ease the sorrow a little day by day.

Love and {{hugs.}}

Chris and Jess,
I still talk to Captain. Almost everyday I think of something he did, and "mention" it to him. It helps to talk to them, even when they are gone.

Jess, the hurt and pain does go but it takes time, and watching tribute videos like yours and Chris's on Bob make it all come back, but in a good way. You keep on remembering the fun times, the happiness, the joy ....... the love.

Huge Huge hugs to you across the miles. He sure was a special boy.

Love
Michelle