Fancy my best friend, 3 weeks ago today

[katladyd]

It's so tough to lose them. I know the feeling of emptiness and grief. It does get better, though. One day another furbaby will steal your heart and need the love you have to give.

[Fancy'smomma]

thanks everyone. It means a lot. I have no.... reason, anymore. I have no schedule. Believe me, when I woke up Fancy always, always came first.

Now... nothings first. I've been ill since her passing too.

[krazyaboutkatz]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it can be to without your beloved cat. I don't know if you know about Rainbow Bridge but this is where all pets go when they pass and then they're able to run and play again. Here's a link about it: http://www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html. Maybe in time you'll be able to adopt another cat to love. RIP sweet Fancy. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

[catmandu]

What a Great Cat Fancy is, and now he is an Awesome Angel in Paradise.
On his shoulders are Wings of Silver and Gold, and on his head a Halo of Diamonds.
He will have found a job as an Awesome Angel that he is suited to maybe as a greeter at the Gates Of the Rainbow Bridge greeting All of Our Awesome Pet and Human Pet Lover Angels.
We love Fancy's Videos, and we know that one day as we walk up that Rainbow Bridge Fancy will be there to greet and love us.
One Fine Day

[happylabs]

So sorry for your loss. It is good that you are posting and sharing pics. It will help with the grieving process. She will always be with you in your heart. Hopefully you can at some point get another kitty to fill the void left by her passing.

[Fancy'smomma]

[CultureJunky]

I know exactly how you feel about losing fancy. I lost my beloved soul mate Jack three years ago now. It took me a long long time to accept he was gone. The most important advice I can give you is to let it take it's time. It won't heal or go quickly. It takes a period of adapting, grieving and soul searching. Just let yourself go through these emotions, as they are all the natural feelings we have when we lost someone we love. You obviously had a strong bond with each other as can be seen in the photographs. Again I was the same with Jack.
Just letting yourself go through the natural process is the best way even though it seems unbearable.
The first thing I did was buy a notebook and started writing 'letters to Jack' so it was like a diary, but I was writing to him about how I felt. That helped a lot. I also bought a scrapbook and made an album of all my favourite pictures, and had quotes and backing papers etc and made a lovely book that I get out to look at every now and then.
I also read some books including a really good one called 'coping with pet loss' from amazon.
Lastly I got a tattoo of a paw print and jack's name on my foot. The only tattoo I have. It was my lasting tribute to him and It will be with me forever.

I hope that helped....xx
Kate