Need Some Advice & Help On This Please!

**phesina** · 08-01-2011, 01:35 PM

God bless you, Melissa. You do so much for so many.

I'm sorry I can't offer much more than lots of {{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}} and ~~~~~~~PURRS~~~~~~~ and lovies from me and the cats.

,
Pat, Sydney, Poppy, Elmer, Bob, Sparkler, Lavinia, and Princess Poppaea Sabina Eugenia

**Anikaca77** · 08-02-2011, 07:25 AM

I will take the hugs and purrs, I just wish I didn't feel so badly about all this.

**catmandu** · 08-02-2011, 09:47 AM

Mekissa, you realy are Our Hero as you do the best you can for so many. I hope that thse Poor Strays ae all right.

At least they are not loose , and in danger from mean peope and predators , and hopefuly can find thei Furr Ever Home soon.

All you can do is your best Melanie

, and you certainly do that.

**Taz_Zoee** · 08-02-2011, 10:02 AM

It's a bit worrisome that they haven't adopted out any cats. I was going to say don't worry about the conditions of the place since it is just temporary. But if they haven't adopted out ANY cats.......

I do hope they get the black and white guy to a vet.......soon. You've done all you can do, which is a lot more than most people would. You should be proud of yourself for how many cats you have helped through the years.

**Anikaca77** · 08-02-2011, 12:44 PM

Originally Posted by Taz_Zoee

It's a bit worrisome that they haven't adopted out any cats. I was going to say don't worry about the conditions of the place since it is just temporary. But if they haven't adopted out ANY cats.......

I do hope they get the black and white guy to a vet.......soon. You've done all you can do, which is a lot more than most people would. You should be proud of yourself for how many cats you have helped through the years.

I didn't think at that time to ask how long they had the cats for but I just sent her a message asking her that so I know. I know they have adopted out a lot of dogs but just no cats.

It just bothers me so much right now. I wish it didn't.

Melissa

**moosmom** · 08-02-2011, 02:21 PM

Melissa,

I know how difficult it is for you. I've been there. You do such great work, girl. But there are times when you just have to let things go. I had a woman stop me to say she had 3 cats that were her mom's and her Mom was in a nursing home. The vet offered to euthanize all three for $120. He's despicable and I will never recommend him to anyone. These cats aren't old either. They're fairly young, 4, 5, and 6. I gave her my card and told her to call me. The cats are currently in her mom's house, which will eventually be put up for sale, so there's no threat of them being dumped. I've called her to let her know I'll take pictures and put them of Petfinder.com My friend offered to foster them, but this woman won't call us back.

I felt bad and even concerned, but it's out of our hands. Obviously this lady isn't that concerned, so I'm not going to be either. I've got other fish to fry.

All you can do, Melissa, is hope and pray. I know it's difficult not worry. I totally get that. But you will drive yourself crazy if you allow it to get to you.

Hang in there, girl and if you need to talk, give me a call. You've got my number. Keep up the great work you do!!

and hugs,

Donna and fur crew