boy or girl

[krazyaboutkatz]

I currently have 4 males and 2 females. I've had more luck with my males being more laid back and accepting to new furkids. Both of my females still growl and hiss at Alani and Blaze and they've been here for almost 1 year. I've found that females tend to be drama queens but I know there's always an acception. You're lucky that your current cat Butler sounds likes he's laid back and easy going because you certainly don't want to put 2 alpha cats together. I would also try to go by personality more than by sex. If it was me I'd get an orange male cat because for some reason they've always been very laid back, very loving, and goofy. I hope that the new kitty will help you find some comfort with your recent loss and will also help Butler too. Good luck.

[Barbara]

I was in the same situation last year- I had a very active boy and got a very active and a little younger kitty girl to go with it. Kiri the girl grew fast into a kind of bully and is the dominating kitty here. Little Orion is more quiet now and plays actively only when she is not around.
The generation before was 2 active boys and I feel I would rather go with another boy if I had to take the decision again. But of course we love them both very much and wouldn't trade them

[catmandu]

The only fighter I have is Miquelito and he gets into these rassling matches with My Panther. It was rougher at first but its all in good fun.
Its odd that when there were Ten Found Cats , there was hardly any fighting at all.