Shadow

[catlover11]

I had a cat named Shadow many years ago so of course I love your kitty's name. He is such a handsome boy and very lucky to have found a loving home (poor guy to be separated from his mom at such a young age though)!

I have to agree with Momo though - having lost my beloved Whisper at age 11 because my parents believed cats were safe outside and since then having seen my share of cats lying in the road or at the side after being killed by a car, I believe cats should never be allowed out without supervision, just like dogs. Especially in the world we live in today where there is so many stressed out drivers on the road causing so many car accidents; don't fool yourself that most people will worry about hitting your cat (of course some of us would rather slam on the brakes after checking the rear view mirror). I have had cats for over 30 years and I assure you they do not suffer from not going outside - they are very happy playing with the toys I provide and have many attractions to watch out the window. Between cars, animal predators, nasty neighbors, etc. it just isn't safe and also not worth a broken heart (yours).

[xgypsyx]

Hiya

I understand and appreciate where you are coming from, believe me. Shadow was an indoor cat after his accident and remained so for 7 years. I recently had a change in circumstances (a very long relationship ended and I could no longer afford my house) so I had to move in back home with my father. Dad has absolutely no empathy for animals and only sees Shadow as an animal. He does not and will not allow him in the house, ever.

It's devastating for me because I've been able to keep a close eye on him for years and I worry everyday what he could be up to, what could be happening to him etc but unfortunately for now, I just have to play the card I've been given and be thankful that I do have a roof over my head and that so far, he's been very safe and careful.

Thanks for your input

[catlover11]

Maybe you can find a friend who can take him in and keep him safe as he deserves until you get back on your feet. Not being allowed in EVER is not a recipe for a healthy life for any cat. If something happens to Shadow how would you ever be able to forgive your father. A foster family would keep him safe and healthy after all he has been through.

[xgypsyx]

It's definitely an option though I expect to be here no much longer than four weeks as my relationship with my father is not good at all. He can't even have compassion for an animal let alone his daughter so I'm outta here for greener and safer pastures for myself and my boy.