Quote Originally Posted by dehlers43 View Post
Oh how awful! I am so sorry for your loss.....
I live in Monterey - I can't take Buddy but I could help with transportation. If you can't find someone to take him, don't forget about the wonderful cat sanctuary near Fresno - Cat House on the Kings. And there are several no-kill shelters in the LA area.
PM me if you want.
I should also add, my husband died very unexpectedly so I can relate to what you are going through......hang in there, hon......
Thank you so very much. His oldest son lives in Monterey and could probably take both of them there. It's an idea. I can also find a no kill shelter around me. I would take them both in, but I have 3 cats in a one bedroom apartment and two more wouldn't work at all! I promised him if anything happened to him I would look after the cats at his home, but the family isn't going for that. People are so cruel and nasty after a death in the family. This has made me more sad than his death, which I saw coming, he was taking horrible care of himself for someone who had had a double bypass and was diabetic.

Oh well, I am doing pretty good, at least as good as I can be at the moment. I teach in an afterschool program and I went in to work yesterday. That helped a lot!!! I think I am more angry at him for not leaving a will and for not taking better care of himself. His family has a real mess to figure out and I will help, but no more than I have to. They pretty much have cut me off from everything unless they need me. Sad world, huh?