Fear of public speaking

[Karen]

If looking at the people is what scares you, focus on the exit sign at the back of the room. Deliver your speech to it - it's nonjudgemental, cannot even hear you, and everyone will just assume you are looking at someone behind them.

Practice your part in an empty room, and look at the exits sign to get yourself used to it.

When you are waiting, regulate your breathing intentionally. Breathe in-2-3-4-5. Hold it for 3. Breathe out-2-3-4-5. Repeat, and try to count higher each time, it'll keep your heart rate steady. And if you feel yourself starting to shake, take a pause in your presentation at a good place, and breathe-2-3-4-5. Hold it for 3, then continue.

[krazyaboutkatz]

I really can't be of any help because I also have the same problem. When I had to give book reports or other oral reports my heart would race and I was always told to repeat myself again because no one could hear me. I'm so glad that I don't have to give public speaches now. Maybe you could just imagine everyone in their underwear like I've heard about and seen on tv shows before. Good luck.

[Freedom]

This won't help for next week's presentation. I joined Toastmasters and stayed with it for almost a year. Helped me SO much!

[Pembroke_Corgi]

Your presentation has to be about 8 minutes? My advice is to make it less of a "speech" and more of an activity. Create some nice materials and come up with a short activity to reinforce the ideas you are trying to share. Make it less about you, and more about your ideas. Your classmates will likely have fun that way, too!

I'm a teacher, and believe it or not, I hate giving speeches, too. When I am teaching, I have no problems in front of a group, even my peers. But a speech is something scary!

If you need help coming up with some ideas about how to make your presentation an activity, let me know. I'm in a Curriculum & Instruction program so I like this kind of thing.

[Taz_Zoee]

I also have this fear. Just this past Wednesday I had to give the department report at our monthly staff meeting. It was less than 2 minutes long. I was fine, not nervous at all........right up until I started talking. Then I got super nervous and kept stumbling on my words. I talk super fast when I'm nervous. So I had to make an effort to speak slowly. I made it through (even though I flubbed my words a few times).
Now, I've worked for the same company for over 7 years. There are only 5 people here that have been here longer than me. I know everyone! I shouldn't be nervous. I am a talker, in social situations. But put me on the spot in front of people (and I didn't even have to stand up in the front, I sat in my chair) and I freak.

We had a Toastmasters group here before. I didn't attend, but several co-workers said it was a great thing and really helped them.

[sasvermont]

Pretend you are someone else......i.e. the expert on the topic. Maybe even change your octave of voice. That's what actors do if the have speech problems. Give it a try.

Good luck!!!

P.S Make sure to breathe smoothly, too.

[dab_20]

Thanks so much for the advice and thoughts everyone. Toastmasters? I've never heard of it... other than it's a toaster brand lol. I'll have to look it up. I'm at the beginning of my college career and I'm pretty sure I'll have plenty more presentations.

Lucky thing is, it's not really a speech. It's a persuasive power point presentation on a subject I got to choose. It helps when it's something your actually interested in, I guess. I'm doing adopting from shelters and ways you can help homeless animals.

The breathing thing should help, I will definitely do that.