I would love her to be like most of the other cats that you all have, to be like Olivia.
You've just define Olivia in the past few days....(see my thread in Cat Behavior). I love her, but, I too am eager for her to hurry up and adapt and get along with others. It is frustrating...especially when you are a safe/kind person and want them to see that. It takes time....yucky, hard time....but time.

Girl cats tend to be more like this too....at least, I keep telling myself that.