You're right Nicole, its his last measure of control and I knew he'd not show. But this puts him in a bit of a legal mess now as he will be in contempt.

You're also right Candace, he will not settle equitably on the financial part so this questioning was to get that in order before it goes before a judge who will decide who gets what.

When the one year period came/went I requested we sever the divorce from the settlement so that I wouldn't have to be his wife anymore. He refused, said there was no good reason.

I will be working on a rebuttal to his 9 pages this weekend, my lawyer has a plan of action for Tuesday and we'll be in court right away. Good to have some action.