Originally posted by ChrisH
it is just how she blows hot and cold, so to speak. The other day she was wandering about, on my bed etc, letting me stroke her, even offering her belly for rubs, then this last couple of days its been in the hidey hole more of the time and don`t touch. I really do not know why, or even if there is a reason.
For a time today she was back to the wandering and stuff but tonight, although she is out and about, is still frostypaws. Oh, she has been in here and on the landing (nice and warm there) but I can not even go near her, to walk past or anything without her running away! Morning time is when she seems to be at her friendliest, cos I bring her breakfast I suspect.
I do have a theory. I don`t think she is scared or nervous, I think she just wants to do things her way, full stop. I either fit in with it or not, she doesn`t care.

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