Thanks for asking Sandy!

I have to tell you that this kitty of mine is driving me up the wall! No, she has not done anything bad, nothing like that, it is just how she blows hot and cold, so to speak. The other day she was wandering about, on my bed etc, letting me stroke her, even offering her belly for rubs, then this last couple of days its been in the hidey hole more of the time and don`t touch. I really do not know why, or even if there is a reason.
For a time today she was back to the wandering and stuff but tonight, although she is out and about, is still frostypaws. Oh, she has been in here and on the landing (nice and warm there) but I can not even go near her, to walk past or anything without her running away! Morning time is when she seems to be at her friendliest, cos I bring her breakfast I suspect.
I do have a theory. I don`t think she is scared or nervous, I think she just wants to do things her way, full stop. I either fit in with it or not, she doesn`t care.

Her and Bob? Not a lot to be said really, she takes a look through the stair railings to see if hes about but they havent come face to face yet. Last night was a bit funny she was looking downstairs and I called Bob ( I have this big box and chair barrier that he won`t cross) and he looked up the stairs and didn`t see me but he did see Ebby, he turned round and went straight in his crate and wouldn`t come back out, made me wonder if he thought I had turned into a cat! She took him by surprise today too, I was sitting at the kitchen table and he was sitting by me, hoping for something to eat I suspect, when we both spotted Ebby sitting on the stairs watching us, he sort of froze, then growled a bit, because she took him by surprise I guess.

Well that is about it. I have to tell you all that I do get very dispirited at times and wonder if I have done the right thing in having her. I so don`t want her to be unhappy here. I would love her to be like most of the other cats that you all have, to be like Olivia. But if how she is, is how she is, thats fine, as long as she is happy. Just wish I knew.