Karen, I saw this thread earlier in the day, but I didn't have time to post.
I have just returned and found your latest entry.

My heart goes out to you so much. Oh sure, you are doing what is right and good for her - but what about you? Losing her after all of these years is still huge and I wish I could comfort you somehow.

I will light a candle that she has a gentle passing and that our Phred is right there to ease her entry into the Rainbow Bridge as delicately as possible.

Much love to you.