Did she finally go to the hospital? Thats so sad. I'm sort of going through almost the same thing with my grandmother but she's in the hospital. She was in for Thanksgiving and now is back in and will be there through Christmas. Its so sad to see the ones you love begin to leave this world. But at least they won't be in pain anymore. She will be going to a better place. Stay strong and let us know if there's anything we can do to help you or Rob.