Just a little rant...

[moosmom]

When I do mention it, she's says "One of these days we'll take a ride to the cemetery" (she's never been there since her Mom died). She SAYS she's been meaning to get a marker for them, but never seems to get around to buying one. It might just be her way of coping. I'm not sure.

When my Dad died 14 years ago, it bothered me SOOOO much that there was an "empty" spot where my Dad's name should've been. I immediately went out and bought a bronze marker with his name and dates on it. It gave me closure.

I might mention it to her again. Maybe in the Spring when the weather cooperates.

Thanks for letting me vent.

[Pinot's Mom]

I don't know if your friend falls into the same category, but I hate cemeteries where a loved one is buried. My whole family hates them. It's an avoidance thing, we all know, but that's the way it is. I understand from whence your friend comes. If you asked I could pretty much guarantee she has stipulated to be cremated.

Give her space and understanding. It is indeed emotional.

[moosmom]

Pinot's Mom,

Oh, absolutely!! To each his own. I don't know what her "final" plans are, but we're so close, she is the executor of my estate (yeah, right...my VAST FORTUNE...NOT!!) and has a copy of my will.

The funny thing is, I just got off the phone with her and she asked me to go to brunch with her tomorrow, as she had a "GROUPON", (new kind of coupon) where all ya do is leave the tip. Go figure!!