Tobie, What a handsome boy you are! You are a very good natured cat to wear a hat and not get all upset. My Luke would have a fit. It sure sounds as if you are a very lovable cat and really enjoy being around your human; that's great. Not all cats are like that. No doubt you are loved and you've had 14 years together. I hope you will have many more years and Congrats on being COTD on Christmas Day! Kay in NC