I think the biggest things are:

the kind of car we drive--I really like sporty 2 door cars, but with taking Malone everywhere with me, that's not possible. So I have a "boat" instead.

basically where we go--many times we will go on a date where Malone can be included. Instead of the movies, we may go to the walking trail across town, or rent a movie to watch at home. We always include him on our vacations, and how long we are away is a big factor due to Marigold & Rilla.