Cats are most peculiar about their relationships with other cats and it is so difficult for us humans to know which way to go

Eve really dislikes other cats and I suspect it is mostly due to her territorial instinct. It seems to me, as well, that she has a genuine fear of male cats, in particular and I wish I could understand what happened to cause that fear For this reason I would never consider getting another cat.

In another life however, my male August was the most nurturing and loving boy I have ever known (especially with little girl kitties) He welcomed his baby sister with open paws and took care of her every day of her short life. She adored him August was also very comfortable having kitty visitors (more so than Roxy - she just tolerated others). We often babysat friends kitties and as usual, August took over and managed our guests in his own quiet and dignified way. He was an awesome cat and taught me well

Whatever you decide Randi about that special little one, I wish you and Fister a happy outcome. It may be worth the try (to foster) while the baby is young just to see Fister's reaction? Just a thought Good luck with your decision.