You see a title to a thread like this and you expect to hear bad news but nothing like this. Never would I have expected to find out that a husband was murdered. If it was a shock to me I can't imagine what it was to you Isabel to actually receive such news. Death is always hard, even when it's expected. Unexpected death is even worse because you have no time to prepare yourself for it. We have all posted because we want you to know that you are loved and cared about. Your grief is of concern to us. As much as we care about you God cares and loves you even more. We are going to be praying for his peace, strength and help for you, your children and your BIL family during this very difficult time.