I am SO sorry to read all this! Gosh, all I can say is I can only imagine how you feel, I know how I panic over the simplest stuff with my babies and this IS serious, extremely serious.

This is just something for you to think about...ok? Maybe with his diabetes, he should be at the ER Vet so they can make sure he has some kind of nourishment to stabilize his diabetes (around the clock)? I couldn't handle one that sick, it would rip me apart and I would just have to take them somewhere, where there was someone who could do a better job than me and holding themselves together and not freaking out like I would.

I never panicked with my skin kids but I always do with my fur kids..
(((((HUGS))))))) for you...