Besides tiring him out before your bedtime so he won't want to play, you can reset his clock to your hours. Wake him up during the day when you're at home. If you can get him to play then, that would help too.

My cat is older, but even he loves his wooly mouse on a string fishing pole. He likes the small bell on it also because it has a high pitch like a mouse. You can also use dog squeak toys but make sure you hide the noisy toys at night. Also make sure the toys are sturdy.

If you think that in nature, cats catch prey a couple times a day, and a young cat is in training to do that. Work with his natural prey urges to keep him active when you're awake to use up his kitten energy and to bond with him.

Also this is a good time to teach him to walk on a leash, and do other tricks. In nature, the cat has to use his problem solving skills to catch prey and eat. He will enjoy the mental stimulation.

Cats can understand words, if you always use the same ones. Science says they can have the vocabulary of a 2 year old. (Anyone who doesn't believe that, say "tuna" and your cat will come running!).

Playing, working, petting, and praise will promote bonding which will make him want to please you.