What a wonderful result of introducing Sebastian! He is adorable. My sister and her husband had 2 cats that had found them where they used to live. They rented and the cats had to be outside. Then they moved and brought the cats and tried making them inside cats. One of them tormented the other one mercilessly. Not in a mean way, but he just wanted to play. Bengal wanted no part of that and the stress was making her lose her fur. There was another stray that was at the house they were renting before they got there. We'd taken her and got her fixed. Once they were settled, they said they would try her over there. She was the perfect fit. She gave Manx the playmate he wanted so he left Bengal alone. My brother in law said that they just needed a Meg. Maybe your household (or at least Jorgie) just needed a Sebastian! I know what you mean though. I have a feral kitty, who has lived outside here for 10 years and is ALWAYS on the porch, but there is no way she'll let anyone touch her for more than 2 seconds. And that is only if you happen to pat her head when she isn't expecting it while she is eating. Although, I was on the porch the other night and she walked up and brushed against my leg. She only does that with the dog. Maybe she was just confused. LOL