Our cats Naomi (RB) and Vasea, used to cuddle and sleep together, wash each other. But, after Vasea had done something that Naomi wouldn't agree with, like eating birds or bats on the balcony, she wouldn't allow him even to come near. Juni was little Dad's girl and she used to cuddle ALL the time with Vasea, wash his face, play with his tail, tease him, and although he was not a very sweet cat, she liked her so much, that she was allowed everything. Well, she was his only daughter