I agreed to pay for the photographer. I give my daughter $100 a month to put into an account for that purpose. The photographer is $1300. I also want to surprize her by paying for her wedding jewelry, which is customer made to her specifications. $365. That will come out of any pet sitting jobs I get.

It IS a stressful time for all. Little details. I asked them where they want to go and found out they want a cruise to the Caribbean. They're on their own there. Ex-hubby is paying for the reception.